1.15 :: Year of the Cat
Written by KG MacGregor   
Sunday, 15 January 2012 17:24

Happy New Year to all! Normally I save this space to talk about book things because I figure that's why most people visit my website. I'll have some book news very soon but today I want to blog about a topic that stirs my passions like few others: Pets.

Nothing brings a smile to my face as quickly as seeing someone fussing over their beloved cat, dog, bird, horse, llama, pig ... whatever. If you're an animal lover, you've probably read the research about how pet owners live longer & healthier lives, but we all know that's just a side effect. The real benefit is joy. I've always believed that we shouldn't judge others, but I can't help myself when it comes to animals. I think we can tell a lot about people by the way they treat animals, and I often write pets into my books because I like them (and I think most of you do too), and it enables me to show the compassionate side of my characters.

In 1984 I adopted a pair of sibling cats -- born on MLK's birthday, January 15th -- which I named Katie (for Hepburn) and Grace (Jones). I didn't know much about cats back then, like the fact that kittens didn't tolerate flea baths very well. I nearly lost both of them to raging fevers but they battled back and forgave me. Then when Grace was 4 months old, she swallowed a needle & thread, and it lodged in her intestine. She survived the surgery just fine and forgave me for stupidly leaving such a tempting hazard lying around. I didn't have a lot of cash back then but I spared no expense when it came to taking care of my babies. In 1989 I found growth on Gracie's back that turned out to be malignant. More surgery followed, and this time, chemotherapy. She probably thought that was my fault too, but she loved me just the same. The cancer came back three times over the years and finally claimed her, but not until 2003. Since she was 19 years old, I'll score that one for Gracie. Katie's life was less complicated, though her last two years were marked by twice-weekly subcutaneous fluids to do the work for her ailing kidneys. She never met a lap she didn't like, but Jenny's was her favorite. She was just shy of her 20th birthday when she left to join Grace. That was about the time I started writing, in case anyone should wonder where I got the pseudonym KG.

Jenny had a couple of wonderful sibling cats too, Smokey & Cody (also born somewhere around January 15th), who lived to 16 and 17, respectively. Their passing two years ago left a void in our lives but we weren't in a hurry to replace them, not with me facing back surgery and a move to California.

But now we're settled again, so after a couple of years of being catless, we visited the animal shelter in Palm Springs in early November in search of new joy. There were literally hundreds of cats to choose from and we took our time strolling from one row of windows to the next. Lots & lots of kittens, but we wanted a young adult, specifically one that didn't look like Katie, Grace, Cody or Smokey. One of the cats spoke to us, not because she ran toward the window or played with a toy, but because she was quiet. Turns out she was quite sick, and needed us as much as we needed her. The moment she curled up in my lap, I knew she was the one. We named her Roz (Russell, the star of my favorite film Auntie Mame), and learned she had been dumped at the shelter last August, just in time to deliver 5 kittens. She was only a year old herself, but was a good mom, raising her kittens to 8 weeks when all were adopted. We would have taken Roz that very day but the feline side of the shelter was under quarantine because of a respiratory virus, and she was suffering terribly with it. A week later she had taken a turn for the worse and I wanted so badly to take her home so she wouldn't meet her fate all alone in a sterile cage. The state of CA wouldn't allow that, though, not until she had been spayed, and that couldn't happen until she was well. I visited her twice more, and on the Saturday after Thanksgiving arrived at the shelter to find it packed with folks looking to adopt. Roz wasn't in her usual window and I started to panic, but then found her a few rows down with her belly shaved. That meant she was over the virus, spayed & ready to go home.

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Needless to add, Roz is now Queen of the House.She eats whatever we feed her, fetches her toys when we throw them, screams each time someone wakes her up and has zero interest in running outside when the door's open. Since this is coyote country, that last bit is a major plus.

The Palm Springs Animal Shelter is dedicated to finding homes for all adoptable pets. This type of shelter -- known in shorthand as "no-kill" -- is more than an institution or organization. It's a covenant that says we as a community believe there's a better solution to animal control than euthanizing 3 to 4 million adoptable pets every year. It sends a shudder through me to know that had Roz landed elsewhere last August, she probably wouldn't have been there for me in November, certainly not after a virus swept through the kennel. My heart wants to adopt them all, and I know many of you who are reading this feel the same way. If adoption isn't practical, there are other ways to help. We can recommend shelter pets to people you know who are looking for a best friend. Find out which veterinarians donate their services to the local animal shelter and give them your business. Consider volunteering at the shelter or becoming a foster parent for an animal that needs special care or socialization. Drop off a bag of food, or those toys your pet didn't like. Or just write a check. Every little bit helps us keep this covenant.

Back in 2007, I published Sumter Point, in which one of my main characters worked at the local animal shelter. A couple of years later, I wrote a short story spinoff that featured another vet tech in Sumter County, one with big dreams of turning the animal shelter into a no-kill facility. It was never published, but I posted it as part of the 2010 Valentine Special at the Royal Academy of Bards. It's good for a smile -- Luck of the Irish -- but not safe for work. ;-)

 

 

 

 
12.23 :: The Top Ten for 2011
Written by KG MacGregor   
Friday, 23 December 2011 18:37

After kicking off the year in January by skipping my first Xena convention this century, I have to admit my expectations for 2011 were rather low. No books on the horizon and a lot of uncertainty about when I would start writing again. Now I look back and realize it’s been a fabulous year!

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#10. I swore I’d never do this. Nonetheless I made my singing debut along with my partner on Karaoke Night at the GCLS with our rendition of These Boots are Made for Walkin’. Yes, there is video.

#9. Any trip to the Castro is going to make my Top 10 list. This year I traveled to San Francisco to do a reading at the Duboce Park Café with the women from Betty’s List. You just can’t beat organic lesbians.

#8. The Tulsa Lesbian Book Club rocks! Thanks for having me via Skype to talk about Without Warning. Next time we’ll do it in person. ;-)

#7. This wasn’t my year for publishing – not a single title. But I finished a book (Rhapsody) which will be ready for release at next year’s GCLS. It feels great to be writing again.

Normally there is no Number 6. In this case, there are two.

#6. Lesbian Fiction Readers Choice Award for Photographs of Claudia (Romance). Thank you!

#6. Lesbian Fiction Readers Choice Award for Mother Load (General Fiction). Thank you again! It’s a great thrill to be recognized by readers, and I appreciate the folks behind the scenes who promote our books with these types of awards.

#5. I became a *star* on the night of the Our Stars event at the Stonewall National Museum & Archive in Ft. Lauderdale. Speaking of boots … the boots I wore to the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro in 2001 (the trek that inspired Worth Every Step) are now enshrined in the museum alongside items donated by Martina Navratilova, Lily Tomlin, Melissa Etheridge & others.

#4. In June I picked up a Goldie Award for Romance for Photographs of Claudia. Many thanks to the GCLS for a first-class event.

#3. I joined the board of trustees for the Lambda Literary Foundation and began working my tail off immediately. Fortunately that’s just an expression. My tail is still there.

I really struggled trying to choose which of these last two highlights deserved to be my top moment of the year. I concluded that it was MY list and I could make both of them #1 if I wanted to, so I did.

#1. I was incredibly honored to give the keynote speech at the 2011 GCLS Convention in Orlando, a gathering of hundreds of women who know exactly what it means to feel driven to write these stories of our lives. In case you missed it, my blog from 7.5 has the links to YouTube, and Nann Dunne published it in her fall issue of Just About Write. Putting together that speech helped me understand what I wanted from this writing life of mine, and it was truly a privilege to share that with so many of you.

#1. If anyone had told me 10 years ago that I would quit my job in market research to write lesbian novels, I would have laughed them out of the room. Then I got hooked on a website called the Royal Academy of Bards, a collection of thousands of stories written by fans of Xena: Warrior Princess and I realized what a wonderful, creative & generous community our fandom was. It didn’t take long to go from reading to wanting to write, and to be honored this year with the ROAB’s Lifetime Achievement Award put me over the moon.

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Thanks for sticking with me another year. I look forward to sharing TWO books with you in 2012, and I’ll be back in a couple of weeks with an idea for anyone still looking for a resolution. Best of holidays to all, and safe travels wherever you go.

 
11.6 :: Long time no blog
Written by KG MacGregor   
Sunday, 06 November 2011 23:57

Yes, it's been ages and I'm so ashamed. Since my last blog 3 months ago, I've completed my move to CA and am loving it! To all you Californians who have welcomed me, thank you! And watch out, because I drive just like you.

I've also completed something else, a new book called Rhapsody, now in the hands of my hitwoman editor. It's always a marvelous feeling to get a book off my desk, but this one felt even better than most because it's the first in a long, long time.

A few things going on eventwise:

  • November 8, 6:30 CT: I'll be calling in to the Tulsa Book Club via Skype to talk about Without Warning, Book 1 in the Shaken Series. Those of you within shouting distance of Tulsa need to get there ... if the ground isn't rocking & rolling, that is. Seriously, how ironic is it they picked my earthquake book weeks ago? So you can blame all that shaking on Heather! Email This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it for directions.
  • November 14, 6:00 ET: The Stonewall National Museum & Archive in Ft. Lauderdale opens its exhibition, Our Stars, celebrating celebrities (that's what you do with celebrities, right?) in the LGBT community. On display are historic & personal artifacts from the likes of Melissa Etheridge, Lily Tomlin, Elaine Noble and ... me! The request was for something out of the ordinary and unique that would help museum visitors connect with me on a personal level. You all know how much I love hiking ... I donated the ragged boots I wore to the summit of Kilimanjaro in 2001 along with a signed copy of Worth Every Step. Yup, they'll be right there in a display case.  Let's hope they're hermetically sealed ... wouldn't want them to peel the paint off Melissa Etheridge's guitar.
  • November 16, 6:00 PT: I'll be reading & chatting with Betty's List Book Salon at Duboce Park Cafe in the Castro. (That's in San Francisco, at 2 Sanchez.) If I find out later you were nearby and didn't come ... :-(

Now that I'm settled into my new place (though my sofa hasn't shipped yet) and finished with my book, I'm looking forward to a new adventure. It's time to get myself down to the shelter for a new cat! Wish me luck!!

 

 
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